When I am sober I don’t want to do anything and I am not really interested in anything at all…?
Posted by adminNov 11
After I drink some alcohol I feel better about myself, my life and everything and everyone around me.
Is that an alcoholism or severe depression, where alcohol is just a temporary cure of the depression?
In other words; do I need AA meetings or anti-depression medication?
I am a father of 5 and I cannot live like that…
Thank you
4 comments
Comment by Karina on 11/11/2010 at 2:22 pm
yes u do!
if u dnt do it soon ur gnna abandon ur family!
u dnt want that!
Comment by Sura Green on 11/11/2010 at 2:54 pm
It’s hard to say but it sounds like depression. And you pointed out that you are a father of 5 so, life right now for you is always going to be extremely busy and stressful at times. Being a Father, you have tremendous responsibilities and if your job is bringing you down, it’s going to bring you down at home. If you have financial worries, and you have to worry about your kids and family then drinking will numb that a little. I think you should go to your family doctor and explain what’s going on. Maybe see a psychiatrist and see how they can treat your depression. Therapy and medication work well together. I hope this helps. Good luck.
Comment by Sunny louise on 11/11/2010 at 3:03 pm
Alcohol dulls the depression or anxiety that you have. Definitely start AA meetings and go to a good pscyhtrist and get some medication. More than anything get a good mentor who understands your problems. You may find one in AA, but you might need to use a psychologist. They can really help you. Sometimes, you may have to look around for the right psychologist, because you don’t always feel comfortable with the first one you go to.Good luck
Comment by Jody on 11/11/2010 at 3:31 pm
Recovery is in Alcoholics Anonymous, the sooner, the better.
Get the alcohol out of your system first, and see what you have left. Then if you need an antidepressant (and you probably will) you can add that.
If you’re drinking and it’s causing problems, then it is a problem.