Pregnant, and feel like I MUST leave the father?
Posted by adminSep 2
So i am newly Pregnant and happy, however my boyfriend is a major problem. I will NOT have an abortion that is Just not right. I have 2 girls already. My boyfriend recently started using Heroin again and has now been arrested. I have told him when he gets out to get his stuff and move out. I will not deal with the stress. He is a great guy but the drug problem I wont have. He has a 13 yr old son who’s life he has jacked up, am I wrong for making him leave, and choosing to be pregnant alone? I mean I feel its better for the baby I can’t have my baby around a junkie thoughts? Im prepared for the idiotic comments that will come!!!! PLEASE DONT TELL ME I SHOULD HAVE THOUGHT OF THAT BEFORE I OPENED MY LEGS THAT IS SO LAME….THE DAMAGE IS DONE OK
4 comments
Comment by Im from New Zealand on 09/02/2010 at 9:38 pm
You are very wise for getting rid of him. Watch the movie Train Spotting and it will further confirm your desision. If he were to leave his drugs lying around and one of the kides got into it….. or if he was smacked off his tree and hurt or neglected a child…..
Heroin addicts have NO place in a childs life. Make sure he is clean before having visiting rights, your kides deserve better. Good luck
Comment by country_gurl on 09/02/2010 at 10:28 pm
You need to get rid of him. You are doing the right thing
Comment by i d0nt want n0b0dy but yew on 09/02/2010 at 10:58 pm
im not going to be one of those prude bitchez and tell you your a $lut, because im a decent person and i know people make mistakes. whats done is done, and thats that.
I think you are only feeling this way for the sake of your children, which results in being a good and caring mother. im sure you want your kids to have a father, but if the father is going to be high all the time, and a bad influence, and making your kids and your life a living hell…then whats the point?
i agree with you, for the sake of the kids, it is for the best.
he needs to get his act together, and he needs to do it NOW.
you tell him if he doesnt go get help, then he will not see his children.
abandoning your family for drugs is selfish, and he needs to realize that.
make him go to rehab! if he doesnt go, or just doesnt even want to quit, then let him learn the hard way on his own, and let him feel like crap while your out being a great mother. Good luck.
Comment by ~*Due July 22*~ on 09/02/2010 at 11:24 pm
totally right choice! do what is right for you and your family!