depressed. His depression has him drinking heavily everyday and night and my problem is that he keeps dragging my fiancee into the binge drinking and bar hopping. The are both former alcoholics and now that my my brother inlaw has lost his girlfriend he is actively trying to break us up too so that he won’t be alone and misrable. I am eight months pregnant and expecting my fiancee to be mature enought to see this but all he wants to do is drink now with his stupid brother who never called him or did anything for him until after his girlfriend left him and now he wants to come to our house everyday to disrespect me. Should i leave these two jackasses and let them drink theirselves to death or what? My fiancee’s mother confided in me today that he was physically abusive to his first wife so that just adds to the many reasons that I believe that trying to work things out wll be a waste of my time. My daughter deserves a better father I think. Or am i being selfish and unreasonable?