My boyfreind had a drug problem a few years back then he only used occasionally. For the first six months of our relationship he lied to me and was doing coke occasionally… maybe a few times a month. I gave him an ultimatum to either go to NA or i could no longer be with him. He goes but i don’t believe he thinks he ever had a real problem. He stopped drinking to be with me for a few months but now has a “few” drinks socially. I hate it and have asked him to stop…. but he says it is fun, he works hard and thinks there is no problem with it because he is NOT an alcoholic. I don’t feel any addict should drink. He says i watch too much tv and that is where my ideas come from. He is an outrageous guy but i see this eventually being the reason we break-up. My dad is an alcoholic and he believes this is why i don’t want him drinking. This is FALSE though, i just know he has an addictive personality. Am i wrong to ask him not to drink? It hurts me so bad but he says it’s unfair. Help!