Just got positive result for the pregnancy test?
Posted by adminSep 30
Please, help me.. I am 28 and I am sure am pregnant. There is should nothing bad about it BUT… The future baby’s father is a ex-heroin addict…Moreover, he used opiates while I got sex w/him. The things seems even worse, becouse I tryied some stuff that I really shouldn’t try… Sounds scary, but I have a baby (3 weeks, no more) and I have the both “parents” being under influence while “making baby”!!! So, please tell me if there is a really chance to my baby ‘ll born w/defects. I want to keep this baby, but I have to be sure, that she(or he) will be OK. Do you have any suggestions, how the opiates will attact the fetus? Please, be nice – I am not an addict, I’ll never do it again, but this unexpectible pregnancy made me cry for help…
Thanx for everybody. I am realy sorry about my behavior, but I am ready for abortion now, despite my desperate willigness to have a baby.. I don’t think any doctor can promise me a “healthy baby”, so the the doctor is not a solution. Thank you, anyway ….
18 comments
Comment by Ryan on 09/30/2010 at 9:28 pm
The only thing I can say is that you need to see a doctor as soon as possible; find out from an expert, not some random Yahoo answers. And be under the influence of nothing else.
Comment by Joslyn on 09/30/2010 at 10:02 pm
You can never truly know. You will needs to consult a dr and get tests done
Comment by buff1ne on 09/30/2010 at 10:35 pm
You need to get yourself clean, ASAP!
Comment by babyblues_752001 on 09/30/2010 at 11:26 pm
it makes me sad that you find yourself in this predicament but it REALLY pisses me off that NOW you think of the consequences after falling pregnant! I honestly don’t understand what you are saying but…you need to get some serious help.
Comment by juliesmom5 on 10/01/2010 at 12:02 am
There’s a chance your baby will be born with defects regardless of any substance abuse. Mothers who never do anything can have babies that aren’t perfect. Just don’t do it anymore during the pregnancy..or ever, for that matter, and get good prenatal care. Good luck!
Comment by papushyk on 10/01/2010 at 12:07 am
better u go to a doctor and get all the information u need… and r u sure the baby is only 3 weeks? better go make a visit to a doctor
Comment by Pretty on 10/01/2010 at 12:53 am
gO SEE A DOCTOR Immediately. .
the first trimester of being pregnant is the most dangerous that can harm your baby and maybe the baby can get some teratogenic effects but I pray that it wont happen . .
Comment by Rysa on 10/01/2010 at 1:47 am
Don’t worry, opiates can’t affect the foetus if from now you take care good of yourself and the foetus. Try to eat healthy food and do not engage in using opiates next time that you make love.
Comment by springo88 on 10/01/2010 at 2:16 am
go and talk to ur doctor or health clinic.. Im sure your baby will be ok… dont stress not good for bub.
Comment by tessa2day on 10/01/2010 at 3:00 am
Well u should see a doctor. If u have drugs again while pregant ur baby may either die or be deformed. Have u had morning sickness etc? Cause if u haven’t mabye ur nt pregant. Also you MUST check with a doctor because if not you might have problems and could die etc…
Comment by Amy on 10/01/2010 at 3:59 am
The only thing you shouldn’t do is ask such serious questions in Yahoo!. Go see a doctor ASAP!
Comment by Ade on 10/01/2010 at 4:01 am
You’re a sweet heart! Congrats on your pregnancy!
I would say that it won’t affect the baby, but it very much depends on what exactely you used. So yes, go see a doctor, tell him exactely what/ how much both of you took, and you’ll a have a much more comforting answer.
Just don’t be scared, think and act wisely, good luck!
Edit: are you sure the foetus is only 3 weeks?
Comment by cute d on 10/01/2010 at 4:11 am
Congratulations
Comment by dE on 10/01/2010 at 4:17 am
no no…it wont influence the baby…its not genetically passes
Why the heck did u accept a baby from ur ex…why dont u get the baby removed??…u still can
Get a life for gods sake!!!
Comment by putemup on 10/01/2010 at 4:57 am
THIS IS URGENT MATTER!! PLEASE SEEK MEDICAL ATTENTION RIGHT AWAY!!
Comment by Born Free on 10/01/2010 at 5:30 am
D-O-C-T-O-R !!!!!
Comment by freezerspider on 10/01/2010 at 5:56 am
get a peditrician asap
Comment by panamarandy on 10/01/2010 at 5:57 am
everyone here seems to have beat me to all the good answers, so i have to agree with them…