if your daughters father?
Posted by adminFeb 26
if your daughters father was a drug dealer, high a lot, smoked weed, done heroin, drank alcohol but only on week ends would you let your 10 month old daughter see him…
- I need help my 17 year old nephew is in juvenile detention headed to an institution?
- Are these guys good picks for my characters?
- Please Help! 8 is to old to wipe his butt for him and sleep in same bed right?
- My husband’s ex-wife is a real problem. What would you do in my place?
- My baby Name number one! super fun!?
- My husband’s ex-wife is a real problem. What would you do in my place?
- girls who want attention?
- is it right to leave my family behind?
- I think I may need some help?
- Would you read this book?
- I work he doesnt(unemployement) …?
- I’m falling back into depression?
- would a parent or sibling be able to take a paternity test for you?
- need help on a confusing family situation? :(?
- horrible family and school life?
50 comments
Comment by Mama Smurf on 02/26/2010 at 11:49 pm
Hell, no!!
Comment by Audra Faye on 02/26/2010 at 11:51 pm
No! What kind of a mother lets her baby be around a druggie?
Comment by lindsay! on 02/27/2010 at 12:08 am
no…not unsupervised.
Comment by Maria on 02/27/2010 at 12:24 am
No, but then this person wouldn’t be my daughter’s father either.
Comment by gaijin on 02/27/2010 at 1:12 am
Uhh…no.Not a good role model.
Comment by eyew@nnacoolnick on 02/27/2010 at 1:16 am
maybe if I was a crackhead
Comment by ஐ☀EuRoPeAn☀ஐ™ on 02/27/2010 at 1:47 am
NOOO DIVORCE COMES IN HANDY
you dont want your daughter to be “inspired:” and want to be that.
Comment by An Agent of Chaos on 02/27/2010 at 2:41 am
Hell to the No
Comment by mexicanboy18 on 02/27/2010 at 2:41 am
No, I would not if I was a female with a 10 month old daughter. A dude with that much trouble with drugs might be a mental and health danger to the child and the daughter is WAY too young to be sick. I really hope you’re not dealing with this kind of thing right now.
VIVA LA RAZA!
Comment by lady_gwen080808 on 02/27/2010 at 3:20 am
I would call the cops and get sole custody until he was clean, thats not the best environment for her. What would happen if the people he associates with were mad at him while he had the baby?
Comment by Baby Chase & Adri's Mommy on 02/27/2010 at 4:14 am
Even with a bad rap sheet like that, I still wouldn’t deny him the privilege to see his child. He just would have to be in my presence when she’s with him.
Comment by 143x0 on 02/27/2010 at 5:13 am
Omg NO!!!
Comment by nmb187 on 02/27/2010 at 6:12 am
No way!!! What if she was caught up in a gunfight or carjacking..how would you feel then?
Comment by EmJae on 02/27/2010 at 7:10 am
NOO!!!!!!!!!!!
Comment by meeomyo on 02/27/2010 at 7:10 am
If he still does it HECK NO!
Comment by Searching on 02/27/2010 at 8:06 am
I would invite him over on the weekend…or do things together. I would explain to him that until he gets clean things aren’t going to be the way he might want them and if he gots a problem with it then take you to court (I promise he will loose and if you dont already got child support on him, he will have it after that)
You may need him to be around so you dont want him to be completely gone but you need to be supervising that
Comment by Flyersfan21 on 02/27/2010 at 8:55 am
no
Comment by Lauren on 02/27/2010 at 9:24 am
NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DON’T LET THAT RETARD LAY A FINGER ON HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Comment by Emily on 02/27/2010 at 9:25 am
uhm, no . :p
Comment by Amy on 02/27/2010 at 10:14 am
NOT AT ALL!!! well it depends really
-does he love her
……if he loved her he would stop doing that crap
Comment by Gil W on 02/27/2010 at 11:07 am
Wait until she is old enough to understand what he’s going through.
Comment by Girl. on 02/27/2010 at 11:40 am
No.
what if some drugies comes when shes visiting and fire guns?
not very smart.
Comment by Dominican Queen ; ツ on 02/27/2010 at 11:53 am
No not without police lol
Comment by Bob M on 02/27/2010 at 12:45 pm
are u kidding?
Comment by gfrog82 on 02/27/2010 at 1:32 pm
If you do that child should be removed from your care, I bet grandpa has hep c too. if he gave a shit he would clean up his act, so obviously he is telling you what is more imprtant. and it is not the child.
Comment by Mochi Z on 02/27/2010 at 2:13 pm
never. not in a million years.
but i would make sure to explain to the child that it wasn’t out of hate, but that she might be in danger being around him.
its never healthy to make a child hate one of their parents. it leads to a lot of mental instability’s later on in life.
Comment by IgnorantKid on 02/27/2010 at 2:33 pm
NO. Tell the father to change so that he can see her daughter.
Comment by jem on 02/27/2010 at 3:19 pm
only a bad mother would send their child into that environment.
Comment by tlcaringlady4u on 02/27/2010 at 3:37 pm
Absolutely not…that’s a dumb question. I call the cops on him and put his azz in prison. Have you heard of stories about drug dealers so high that they give their children drugs and they sit there an laugh about it….GROW UP, you know better…grrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Comment by ryjackmama on 02/27/2010 at 4:25 pm
Only an irresponsible idiot mother would allow their child to be around ANYBODY like that. What a stupid question.
Comment by J L on 02/27/2010 at 5:20 pm
Not until he grew up and cut the self destructive tendencies out.
Comment by pwll84 on 02/27/2010 at 5:31 pm
Yes strictly supervised, no alcohol, no drugs etc allowed If he improves or proves trusted-worthy the more supervised time he’s allowed to have.
Comment by sam on 02/27/2010 at 6:12 pm
I probably owuldnt let him see her alone ,and definatly not on weekends.
Comment by Kristy on 02/27/2010 at 7:01 pm
I have to agree with maria…no i wouldnt let my child see him but then again…i wouldnt of slept and gotten pregnant with someone like that.
Comment by Bean on 02/27/2010 at 7:28 pm
definitely not thats a horrible idea
she shouldnt have anything to do with him until he cleans up his act
any mother who would even consider it needs to reevaluate her parenting skills.
Comment by CHRIS S on 02/27/2010 at 7:57 pm
are you high?
Comment by I LOVE MY BOYS! on 02/27/2010 at 8:27 pm
hell no. i would not have had a child with him.
Comment by Ruth on 02/27/2010 at 9:12 pm
Never unsupervised. Perhaps only occasionally, if I knew for sure that he was clean and sober. He most definitely would NEVER transport her anywhere!
Comment by Sweet G on 02/27/2010 at 9:43 pm
lol thats MY ex..and NO I had all of his rights removed . He isnt allowed near us..because he is a loser. But I do take the money for the 6 kids and smile
You do have to prove it though
Comment by Sammy on 02/27/2010 at 10:40 pm
Yeah i would sounds crazy but he is her father may not be the best role model but your daughter is going to have to learn the truth about what his father does. Not so much now but later in life.
Comment by Ava's Mama on 02/27/2010 at 10:48 pm
i wouldnt but thats just me –
when he got straight and cleaned up – yeah he could see her anytime
if he ever came around her messed up……he would be lucky if i didnt kill him
so WHY did you go w/this guy?????
you know the father has just as much to do w/the developmental probs of drug babies as the mother right????
Comment by Sarah P on 02/27/2010 at 11:44 pm
your husband needs arrested!!!! no i would never let him so the kid and i would divorce his butt off.!!
Comment by chuy on 02/28/2010 at 12:04 am
no way mami. i would try to move as far away as possible from him. u wouldn’t want a guy like that near ur daughter, would u?
Comment by ME!!! on 02/28/2010 at 12:51 am
HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!i would send him to jail!thats kind of a stupid question.you dont even have to think about that!what if he drugged her?
Comment by ? on 02/28/2010 at 1:17 am
noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Comment by ozzy_freak20032002 on 02/28/2010 at 2:14 am
all i got to say is u need a serious change of pace cuz it sounds to me like ur life is wrapped up in alota bad s*it. u have horrible parents, a boyfriend who’s dealin, and where does it all end? i ain;t tryin to rip on u, but it sounds to me like u need a break from all this junk. my advic e for everythin i seen thus far is to take ur kids, go sumplace and start a whole new life for urself!
Comment by ☆мαdαиуѕz☆ on 02/28/2010 at 2:33 am
UH UH!!heck to the no.lol.
Comment by amberRose on 02/28/2010 at 2:38 am
OMG HELL NO!!!
Comment by Ciara's Mommy on 02/28/2010 at 3:27 am
HECK NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Comment by mimi#1 on 02/28/2010 at 4:08 am
yeah that’s her daddy every kid need to see their father whether he is a good or example so they don’t blame you at the end or be called a bastered i would let him see her with conditions that he won’t do any of these thing infront of her nor with my supervision