I could be in trouble with the cops and with this dudes dad, help?
Posted by adminSep 2
This whole thing got blown way the f*ck out of proportion. I’m 18, a high school graduate, and i admit i party a little like any teenager. But i almost never get drunk, and my parents rule is, if i get caught by the cops that’s my a**.
I was hanging with my friend who’s 20, and she comes from a bad home, and her and her 17 year old cousin were going to get a hotel for the night that she and her boyfriend paid for. We all went there and hung out. Then another one of her friends came and brought some beer and vodka. I drank some but i was no more then buzzing. We were just laughing having a good time. As a joke, me and her cousin snorted powdered coffee creamer like it was cocaine for a laugh cause it smelled good. But when we left the apartment. She was getting concerned about us for some reason. So she called his dad, and all she said was we were snorting something and something about a cannaster. He and i went to his house (which is her house) thinking we were just gonna hang and drink more their cause his dad doesn’t give a sh*t. But he came home drunk with his girlfriend saying he’s mad at him that he did whippets. He and i hung outside, and his girlfriend came out totally sober. I explained everything, and she totally understood it at that point and saw nothing wrong. But when i tried to explain to his dad, he just said “I should kick you f*cking ass!” then he shoved my friends cousin saying he should f*ck him up saying, “you guys are f*cking snorting sh*t, doing that sh*t!” i ran out of the house, and i told him to erase my number and to not give my name.
i explained this to my mom, cause she knows i drink, i smoke pot for 5 medicinal purposes, and she says i did nothing wrong. but im worried his dad might find my number, call the cops, and i might get framed under the impression i got him to snort cocaine, and we were drinking. and i just got a job at subway, and dont want to lose my job over some bullsh*t thing that never happened. and im pissed that my friend (the girl) told his dad cause i got dragged into it. what should i do cause im heated, and ready for the cops to show up and f*cking tell them his drunk ass verbally assulted me. but i dont want to lose my friendship with her cause she didn’t mean for me to get dragged into it. please help.
2 comments
Comment by ibiteforfood on 09/02/2010 at 9:56 pm
well the best thing to do is try and talk to the dad again.try and tell him you weren’t trying to do anything wrong.he may be a hard head but you gotta at least try.if he does tell the police you gotta talk to them too.the best thing to do is tell the truth.lying makes things worse.try to get things straightened out.i know it’s gonna be hard but the best thing to do it try and talk to him and get things right again.i really hope things turn out ok.
Comment by oz123 on 09/02/2010 at 10:48 pm
I really doubt you have anything to worry about.
The police won’t pursue charges against you after ‘hearing from some guy who heard from some girl that a small amount of ‘something’ was being snorted. As for the drinking, 1) you didn’t provide it and 2) there is no evidence that it actually happened. Police hear about underage drinking all the time, but they can’t do anything about it AFTER the fact. If they caught someone who is underage being intoxicated, they might try to trace it back, but not now based on some hearsay.
Concerning the dad.. now that you’re an adult you’ll find yourself in more and more situations involving drunks that you don’t trust and don’t trust you. It can be very unpredictable, explosive, and outright dangerous. You need to steer clear of them. You should explain this to your friend and ask that he/she doesn’t get that particular dad involved if they have any concerns.