how messed up is my life? im 14?
Posted by adminOct 29
my father beats me every day. i skip classes and many times skip school. im addicted to heroin and cocaine and i got busted for having coke. i just got out of juvie and ive gotten two girls pregnant already. my mom left and ive been cutting myself and i just got out of the hospital and almost died for shooting myself in the stomach. i really wanna change. ive gotten expelled from two schools one for drinking on school grounds and one for slamming a girls head into a locker and breaking her nose
46 comments
Comment by ja133 on 10/29/2010 at 7:12 pm
wow you are a nut case
Comment by ;)ohbabbyyyyyyy! on 10/29/2010 at 7:45 pm
wow tahts really sad, your fourteen.
Comment by Naturally Me on 10/29/2010 at 8:36 pm
i gotta say. you’re messed up. get help…. please :[
Comment by luckyouaskhole on 10/29/2010 at 9:14 pm
someone can’t be that messed up, i think you’re making this up
Comment by jess on 10/29/2010 at 10:04 pm
why would you slam a girls face into a locker?
Comment by mr nice guy on 10/29/2010 at 10:38 pm
Wow your a real “f” up! The good news is… you can change your life whenever you want!
Comment by [dallascowboys:love] on 10/29/2010 at 10:48 pm
get mental help. immediately.
Comment by Freeporthelper on 10/29/2010 at 11:34 pm
see where i live we have this big white building with this big blue room where they put people like you in
Comment by kelp32 on 10/30/2010 at 12:08 am
go see a psychologist. They can hook you up with some free help.
Comment by Officer Friendly on 10/30/2010 at 12:56 am
Whatever dude, where do you get the money for heroin and coke? That’s expensive stuff.
Comment by * cross country love * on 10/30/2010 at 1:32 am
ha yeaaaaaaa; i agree with the first person.
you’re a nutcase ]:
Comment by Johnattan S. on 10/30/2010 at 1:57 am
Ill say your life is really messed up but you can get out of it try stop using drugs and if you cant get professional help, also stop cutting yourself … it just makes it worse for you.
Comment by ♥soccer♥ on 10/30/2010 at 2:31 am
:0 i think you should call the cops on your dad
go to a program to get off drugs and maybe a councilor
and next time , just a hint use protection
Comment by Billy on 10/30/2010 at 3:03 am
well ur life is pretty messed up.. but i dont think its too late to change..
if ur rly willing to try, im sure theeres a chance for u.
lol wtf.. slamming girls head into lockers?!!?
Comment by like wow its MC on 10/30/2010 at 3:18 am
are you being serious?
go to rehab…. youll get away from your family
Comment by Tearsofgold on 10/30/2010 at 3:26 am
Both you AND your life is messed up. But you know what? I’m sorry this has happened to you. Everything in your past that has left you scarred has some sort of bad influence on you. Starting right now, you should seriously stop all the pain you are causing yourself. I know it’s not “just that easy” but it is possible.
Comment by mynittany7 on 10/30/2010 at 3:29 am
im sorry, i just dont think you are serious.
Comment by 88Keys on 10/30/2010 at 4:10 am
1. Blame it on the parents.
2. Only you can change if u want….u seem like u dont want to from all that crap u do
3. grow up , and change
4. you need a nice ass wipping from a real grown up man.
Comment by hali on 10/30/2010 at 4:36 am
wow thats pretty messed up…
you should see someone like maby a..psychiatrist
Comment by Sarah G on 10/30/2010 at 5:10 am
HOLY CRAP!!
ummm
i am speechless
thats horrible
and no .. don’t commit suicide ..
cause what good is that going to do?
..or cut yourself .. why did ur mom leave
was it cause of your behaviour .. or your dads abusivenesssss?
Comment by jimglandon on 10/30/2010 at 5:45 am
if this is actually true…whcih i find it hard to believe, then you’re very stupid. Obviously you don’t have your priorities straight. Good thing I didn’t see you slam a girl into a locker…
Comment by heidi on 10/30/2010 at 6:11 am
uuuuhh………… well it sounds pretty serious
i mean im fifteen and i dont know anyone in my school that’s done this.
but the place to start is recognizing the problem which you have and then you have to get help. i would suggest going to http://www.onyourmind.net and talking to someone there. they can give you advice confidentially and give you phone numbers to help you too.
start there and good luck:)
Comment by Dew on 10/30/2010 at 6:23 am
Pretty messed up for the age of 14. you are young and still have time to turn your life around.1st you need to get away from your abusive Dad and get into rehab.Can you find your Mom? Maybe she is the better parent and live with her. Make a better life for you and your 2 kids.
Comment by Doctor44 on 10/30/2010 at 7:06 am
My life’s worse. I haven’t even had the chance to get girls pregnant yet (like I ever will). Except for that, our lives are equally as messed up, just in different ways.(At least you got access to drugs).
Comment by Mike on 10/30/2010 at 7:56 am
i think u might be crazy
Comment by Daniel G on 10/30/2010 at 8:09 am
that is probably not true and if it is try talking to a councilor and have you ever thought of religion like god and stuff it can really help !
Comment by tsponsler26 on 10/30/2010 at 8:14 am
Youre really messed up, and I really suggest you get into some kind of counseling and get off drugs please ! its for your own good.
Comment by smilie face on 10/30/2010 at 9:11 am
u need 2 get a hold of child services and tell them that ur dad is beating u if thats the case. stop skipping school and classes bcuz ur ruining ur future. get off the drugs cuz ur killing ur self. stop sleeping with girls, bcuz ull b a father of 30 b4 ur 18, stop trying to kill ur self bcuz ur getting no where. stop drinking bcuz u can seriously damage ur body by drinking b4 ur 21, and stop beating people. a lot of the stuff thats u say is happening is things that could b prevented if u tried.
Comment by Howard G on 10/30/2010 at 9:43 am
LMAO
just OD and get it over with. but shoot you dad first.
Comment by Looking For A Way Out on 10/30/2010 at 9:51 am
i know itd be tough, but see ur school counselor, theyd be the best help. if u really want to change then u would get the courage to go. and i have no idea what to tell u about ur dad… im sorry dude, thats screwed up =(
Comment by black lab on 10/30/2010 at 10:38 am
first of all… you have to WANT to change. You have to be completely willing to do whatever it takes to change. It would probably be benificial to go away to a rehab facility for a little while and stay from the people who support you habit. and 2 girls 14 yrs old DUDE wear condoms if your gonna have sex! Good Luck
Comment by Rick on 10/30/2010 at 11:29 am
You have nothing to fear, after you get sent to prison, your life will be dictated by others. Now tell me that ain’t good news.
Trust me, you are prison bound, and will spend many nights being pimped out by your pimp, and beat down for kicks. Your life is set my friend.
Comment by Sparkiieee on 10/30/2010 at 12:27 pm
yeah.. your life is pretty messed up, your 14?? wow
well call childerens helpline about your father, they can press charges against him for being a child abuser
for school, just try your hardest to make it to your classes and do your homework
Use condoms during sex, might not feel as good but oh well
Find a local rehab program for drugs
Dont carry guns or shoot yourself, not that hard to avoid that.. yes ive been there and wanted to shoot myself too and rright now your probably thinking this chick has the life she doesnt know what she’s talking about but i understand…
and keep drinking for weekends.. not school why would you do that anyways??
just ask yourself one good question, why are you doing all this?? its not helping anybody.. infact its only hurting people and you can make it better no matter how hard it is you will
Comment by emeraldcoastlimo on 10/30/2010 at 1:11 pm
Its sounds like you have a death wish.How did it make you feel when you broke the girl’s nose ? May I suggest you go to this website :
http://www.teenchallengeusa.com They will have some positive direction for you.
Comment by sweet_mich_guy_2005 on 10/30/2010 at 2:02 pm
cool. keep up the imaginative stories. they make me laugh!
Comment by dog.love101 on 10/30/2010 at 2:40 pm
Most of your problems probable were caused from your father beating you, you should contact a place where they have people to help you, you can find them all over.
Best of luck, I hope your life turns in the right direction.
Comment by Mo D on 10/30/2010 at 3:08 pm
Just pray to god for guidance and for help. I kno at first u might b reading this n thinking “ok, no” but please, the lord really does help! believe it!! Most people say they dont believe in the lord because there is no “proof” but u kno wat the lord isnt only shown thru his face or his actual physical existance, but hes shown by the things he does, so please please turn to God. My friend used to be a gang banger and God really changed his life and now hes such a great person. Just take a moment to pray to God, and even tho things mite really really suck, still say thank you that you’re here and that you’re alive. Hes saved u many times, and just give him a chance i promise hell do great things.
Good luck n god bless, hun. <3
Comment by Phaedra O on 10/30/2010 at 3:20 pm
I am 14 and I know how you feel.
to make you feel better is to stay in school and just relax and not make any problems with your dad. I have been getting into so much trouble lately that my dad took my surf board away and my door not fun and I am trying to build my trust back with my dad so I can have a better life with him then fighting with him. Just relax and try to control your feelings then pushing girls into lockers and getting them pregnant and I personally hate school but I am trying to get through it so i can have a good life ahead of me. i hope this helps in some sort of way
Comment by Emily on 10/30/2010 at 3:35 pm
It’s messed up because you are an idiot.
You can learn to use protection and not get girls pregnant.
It was your sole decision to start using drugs, nobody forced you, and even now you are not in rehab.
It is your decision to skip classes instead of seeking professional help.
And if your father beats you every day, why didn’t you call child protective services so you could go live elsewhere?
Your life is messed up because you made it that way.
Comment by kiki_willis on 10/30/2010 at 4:02 pm
Well you really need to get away from your dad. If you stay with him you’re never going to change. Is there a children home or a teenage shelter in your area. I really want you to look into jobcorp, you’ll be staying there, have some mentors to talk to, and will be in school and training for a career of your choice. Just keep your head up kid, and don’t think everybody get to you. You’ve only got to please yourself. And since you said you’ve gotten two girls pregnant, you might want to start with trying to get a job, and keep going up there and telling them you’re really interesting in working, they like that. Good Luck kid, and remember keep you’re head up!
Comment by blue.eyed.blonde on 10/30/2010 at 4:26 pm
Honestly, you have already realized you have problems and that is the first and often hardest thing to do. now its time to get help do something about it will help you and others talk to your parents about it let them know you need help or a councilor at school it might be hard to confront someone about this but think about how much better off you will be yes everyone makes mistakes but you need to face them and they will help you to be a better person. i hope you get the help you need and all goes well
Comment by Sweethang1029 on 10/30/2010 at 4:57 pm
Babe, im so sorry.
my heart goes out to you. and i know i dont know you but i wish someone would beat the shit out of your father so he could have a dose of what you have to deal with, he needs a taste of his own medicine.
I know how addicting drugs are, thats why im not into the hardcore stuff like you are.
Sweetie, i suggest you go check yourself into a Rehab as soon as you can, and if you do, when you meet with a counselor just tell them absolutley EVERYTHING.
If you cant do the rehab thing. then just try to pull yourself away slowly doing less and less drugs at a time.
Find someone you can trust in and tell ANYTHING to.
Go to the cops the next time your father hits you, or call them after or before. figure something out.
Im 13, ive had a fucking hell of a ride too.
Im here for you if you ever need to talk =].
Good Luck<3.
Comment by nicolemianicole on 10/30/2010 at 5:14 pm
Wow that really sound mess up I feel sorry for you. I can tell you want to change because your talking about this. Have you ever try-ed talking to your counselor at school. Fourteen is so young to be addicted to anything but candy I feel sorry for you maybe you need to go to a treatment center, take some angry mg-mt classes and go to a foster home. You got two girls pregnant and your a baby yourself. If you going to be a daddy it’s only right you break the cycle.
Comment by do you wanna dance on 10/30/2010 at 5:24 pm
please take a long walk off a short peer. and get this mess out of your life.there is no point in living like this.
Comment by lisa w on 10/30/2010 at 6:20 pm
if you want to change you have to change yourself so goodluck
Comment by answer me this on 10/30/2010 at 6:57 pm
Quit all your lying