hOW DO I MAKE MY MOM FEEL BAD ( READ )?
Posted by adminFeb 20
oK My mom is mean to me and my parents are devorced my dad has had a few dui’s so my mom keeps saying no you cant go live at your dads he needs to get his stuff together.my moms boyfriend is only fair to his real kid and my mom only likes my sister i hate her most of the time( i dont want to hear that is terrible blah blah blah i dont care it is old ) my mom just makes me come up stairs to do choirs ( i live in the basement- im 13) so i was wondering how can i make my mom feel so bad she leaves me aloneor starts to be nice. Nothing violent. she acts like she cares but she doesnt not even when i say ( i want to go liv at my dads) she does not care im about to call the cops
ok first of all my dad isnt a drunk HELLLOOO. He OWNS A BAR. And he never drinks around me EVER. So thank you very much good answers everybody so far except for ONE ill choose best answer tommorow.
8 comments
Comment by Emily J on 02/20/2011 at 12:30 pm
There is nothing you can do to make her do anything. When you are 14 you can choose where to live, just wait.
Comment by Jally on 02/20/2011 at 12:36 pm
Wait.
Call the cops for what?
Comment by SAMANTHAA00 on 02/20/2011 at 12:44 pm
Um, try ignoring her I guess … use reverse psychology. What she does to you do it back to her, and eventually she’ll start to realize that you’re upset. If you really think it’s good that you live with your dad then constantly tell her that. Also maybe talk to your dad and get him to get your mom to agree.
Comment by holly76 on 02/20/2011 at 1:26 pm
first of all…your mother is your source of survival..she feeds you etc..you need to accept her rules and stop bieng a brat..trust me if your dads a drunk then she must be protecting you..your dad is a DRUNK,, hellllllloooooooo!
Comment by dabockle on 02/20/2011 at 2:03 pm
hey i was in a similar situtation with my parents. i HAD to live with my mom even though she is a bitch. My cousin also went through the same thing our moms are sisters by the way. He’s about 3 yrs older than me and he gave me a trick that worked great. I started keeping to myself alot more but would not neglect someones company. meaning if i could i would be by myself but when my mom talks i make sure its brief and i get out of there but dont be rude. Soon shes going to miss you but dont stop behaving like this. its sad but this may be the only way for her to stop acting that way
Comment by KRIS on 02/20/2011 at 2:56 pm
if you think that i’m going to help you do such a miserable thing to your mother you are wrong.
but, hey, if you want to call the police, knock yourself out and do it.
wow, you really are miserable!!
Comment by CLICK HERE TO SEE PIC on 02/20/2011 at 3:26 pm
Call the cops on your own mother? Wow. Shame on you.
What can the cops do? Arrest her for not letting you go stay with your dad? Arrest her for putting up with your tantrums? NOT.
You are 13 years old for crying out loud. You can’t survive without her I guarantee that. So since she has given you a roof over your head, clothes on your body, shoes on your feet, food in your stomach, you need to kiss her *** and grovel at your feet. She volunteered to be a mother! She wasn’t forced to put up with your crap. She does it because she loves you.
She gives you chores in order to prepare for adulthood. You think she is going to do them when you are on your own? Doing chores is nothing compared to how it is going to be once you are 18.
You have no clue. Your mother is doing a great job by not letting you stay with your father. She knows what is right and best for you. Eventually you will see that when you get older.
For now, you have 5 more years to get out. You think it’s bad now? Try living on your own or try living with your drunk dad. You will be crying home to mom in no time. Trust me.
*A few DUIs? Your mom won’t let you stay with him? Yep, he’s a drunk. You said so in a subtle way.*
Comment by ProudMomof3 on 02/20/2011 at 3:29 pm
Go ahead and call the cops. They can always use a good laugh down at the station when children are finally asked to do chores by a parent, and the child cries about it. Sure, go for it.
Be careful though. You’ll be known as the boy who cried wolf. If you ever really need them, they won’t take you seriously next time.