Help! Ex has my daughter and wont give her back!?
Posted by adminMay 31
I live with my daughter, Keeley, 6 in Devon. Her father, my ex husband, lives in London.
Every three weeks Keeley spends the weekend with her dad as part of a court order. The court order states he collects her from me in Devon and takes her back to London on the friday night. Then on the sunday night i drive for 5 hours to collect her from London and bring her home to Devon.
I was driving to collect her when my car broke down about an hour from my house. The AA recovered me and drove me back to my house. My car is a gonner.
I rang my ex and asked him to bring Keeley back because I had no car to do it and I cant afford the train fare.
He refused. He says he cant afford the petrol to drive the 240 mile journey. I don’t buy this. He is a network manager on London wages. I am a sales assistant and single mum of three.
If he doesn’t bring her back not only will Keeley miss school but she doesn’t have more than a weekend’s worth of clothes with her.
I am powerless because its not in the contract that he has to return her. I have to collect her. Not only that if he wanted he could drag me to London Court and get me in loads of trouble for not picking her up. (Trust me. He’s done it before. £250 fine because I was 8 hours late picking her up because my eldest daughter went into hospital after an asthma attack.)
So any ideas what I can/should do? All answers appreciated. Thanks.
2 comments
Comment by Home Skillet <3 on 05/31/2010 at 7:41 pm
get a friend or family member to go and get her for you? give them gas money? i would do whatever it takes…
Comment by Neptune on 05/31/2010 at 7:47 pm
Oh my… that’s not right… You should ask for the contract to be changed so that if you are not able to pick them up due to any reason like the two you gave in your question, so that he has to bring the child down? It’s not fair on you at all. Is there a friend you can borrow a car off of? Or money for the train fare? If you borrow a car or money for train fare, you can pay them back when you have the money, or half when you can and the other half when you get more money.
Good luck.