ok so here is the story im 19 and he is 23 i dated this guy off and on for 3 yrs well my parents got divorced after 20 yrs together really messed me up so i moved with my mom to another state and me and this guy broke up well while i was up their i got pregnant me and my childs father dated for a yr

my dad got sick so i recently moved back to help me dad my daughter is 9 mths and i got back with the guy from highschool which was a mistake he has cheated on me in the past i shouldnt have taken him back he got a dui let him move in with me we argued all the time so i kicked him out well recently i started talking to his best friend i have known this guy for a long long time we hung out ever day for a month then we had sex the condom broke and i got pregnant i told him that i am he said we will take it one day at a time and abortion is not a option but lately he only calls when he is horny or to ask how im feeling i dunno i really wanted to be with this guy i really feel i love him but i dont want to tell him and give him that type of power cause when we were hanging out every day i used to tell him dont fall in love with me and he would say the same thing he is not talking to anyone either i just dont know please help im going through enough i really dont want any negative responses
yeah your prolly right when i was younger i got raped and have always had to be in a realationship with a guy and when i finally turned 17 i got breast implants and everyone tells me im beautiful but i guess i just dont see it and i prolly did make a mistake telling him not to love me in a joking matter and he has told me the same thing but he just seemed like a very good guy and acted as if he really cared about me and i liked it and he only has had like 4 realationships his whole 23 yrs of life infact i think he has only slept with like 9 girls and i know this cause i dated his friend but who knows he could be talking to someone else im just so upset and confused and now just wandering why i did this to my self
yeah your prolly right when i was younger i got raped and have always had to be in a realationship with a guy and when i finally turned 17 i got breast implants and everyone tells me im beautiful but i guess i just dont see it and i prolly did make a mistake telling him not to love me in a joking matter and he has told me the same thing but he just seemed like a very good guy and acted as if he really cared about me and i liked it and he only has had like 4 realationships his whole 23 yrs of life infact i think he has only slept with like 9 girls and i know this cause i dated his friend but who knows he could be talking to someone else im just so upset and confused and now just wandering why i did this to my self

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ive recently gone through a lot, back and forth fighting between my parents, cocaine addicted mother, parents hating eachother, taking physical and emotional abuse from father, point is ive been hurt at least once by everyone in my life, even my bestfriend. so yeah i have trust issues, and this kid like hes not my type, cocky, player status, nothing id fall for, and i didnt intend to. he was just a friend but not a good one and we didnt have good conversation but then thanksgivign he asked whats wrong and ive been able to open up to him since, we talk all the time and idk hes sweet but its hard to believe hes being real sometimes. last night he said he was warning me if we were alone today he was going to make a move, and i was iffy on that, but then he started rambling on and throwing all this stuff out there, and to me it sounded like he wanted to be friends for now and he wasnt looking for a relationship, because hes had 3 gfs in a row in the last 3 or 4 months that all fucked him over, and hes like i probably sound like an asshole right now and i was like oh yeah. and as the conversation went on he added in that he didnt want to hurt me and he doesnt want me to get a bad rep by being “girl number four” and he wants to have something with me just take it slow, it doesnt make sense to me, its not like we were even dating we were good friends with an obvious attraction. anyways i dont trust people and hearing that really made me not even want to get involved, but at the same time every girl wants to give the guy a chance right? i dont know, he skipped his class to come to my study hall however two periods after he didnt even notice me walking down the hall, and i mightve heard him asking a girl to leave with him, im not positive. he knows ive got a lot of shit going on and that i dont trust anyone, so im really at a loss. he said a bunch of stuff to me yesterday during that talk telling me how much he liked me, that he was pissed his phone got taken away cause that meant he couldnt talk to me til ten when he got out of work, he drove back to the school after school to see me yesterday and just all this stuff. your opinion?
Please answer, i dont have much people to talk to about this and your answers really do help
well thats what i wanted to know, i dont have my virginity haha. Btw dont tell me to shut up, who the hell are you asshole

The ex husband keeps taking me back to court for increased custody. We have gone to court almost annually since 2002. He was seeking full custody last year claiming because he was on disability retirement it makes him a better parent, the mediator mistakenly gave him 70% custody, prior he had 30% but mediator ‘thought’ he had 50% custody. After a trial Judge ordered 50/50. Kids are not happy and only wanted a little more time with dad. Now that it’s been a year he is going back for full custody after discovering I plead no contest to a DUI last October. (I didn’t have the money to fight the charge, btw I was parked in a private parking lot at the time of my arrest). The kids have expressed numerous times they don’t like being at their dad and step mom’s home as much as they are required to. All year long I suffer harassing emails from him, I receive memberships to websites he and his wife sign me up for with out my knowing, constant scrutiny of ALL aspects of my life, from parenting to the decision of the puppy we recently added to our family and telling the kids their opinion of me, even though he made it a part of the court order not to speak about each other in front of or to the kids. I told the judge in the hearing in April of this year that I just want to have to stop coming to court and this constant battle with ex husband. I want to move on but every step I take I get whipped back in to court. The time and energy it takes, completely absorbs my time. Anyone who knows the particulars of the court battle all say the same, he’s out to destroy you is all. How can I get this to end?

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The date was November 27, 1990. A baby was born that weighed 8.3 ounces, His name was Joshua. He was born in Federal Way, Washington.. From this day on he would start his life with no looking back. It was a generation where people wore neon colored clothing and pop music was the new wave of the future. Josh grew up in a normal classed family, He had 3 brothers. He was a very energetic baby and always had a smile on his face. As time grew on and he got older, Joshua and his family moved from federal way to Kent, Washington. When Joshua was 6 years old his older brother was out riding his dirt bike in the backyard whom of which was only 9 at the time ran him over. Later that week he had been climbing on the entertainment center which enclosed a 50 inch TV later did he find out that the thing was falling before his eyes and coming straight towards him. He laid helplessly on the floor unconscious. Later that day he was rushed to the hospital and luckily only encountered minor problems. In the year 1999, The family packed up and moved again this time to a small town in the country on a house with 2 acres. They lived very happily there for at least he though, After a year of living there his parents started going through a nasty divorce, There was violence throughout the house, Alcohol, and even drugs. Joshua was always in the middle of everything as his other brothers stayed off in the distance keeping to themselves trying to ignore what was going on. It was November 27, 2000 it was Joshua’s birthday. As the family sat down to eat the birthday cake a huge fight broke out that lead to police and domestic violence. As the 9 year old child sat there alone blowing out his candles, He made a wish that would never come true! One night Joshua waited tell his parents went to sleep and he went into the kitchen and grabbed a box of tiles and a crow bar and started ripping the molding around the doors off and the tiles around the fireplace off, His father thought he was doing this out of rage and immediately checked him into a psychiatric ward. It wasn’t a act of rage, He just wanted to try and redo what his father had talked about doing, he thought maybe just maybe it would bring his family closer together. The day was September 7th 2001, the house was being repainted and ready to be sold. The divorce was final. The fighting was finally over, but the family was destroyed. He moved in with his older brother and father switching schools for the 4th time. He prayed to god every night that his family would once again reunite, Again he was let down. Now while Joshua lived with his father, He let him do pretty much whatever he wanted. His dad never really looked over him, he worked a lot and never had time for his family. He was given permission to drive without a license and did so for about a 2 years. He couldn’t prepare himself for what would come next he was given the keys and told to go to the store and accidentally got into a accident so he took off and plowed through a intersection t boning a mini van. At the age of 15 he had letters in the mailbox from Chase Manhattan and Citi financial, They where credit cards, All together the cards had a staggering credit limit of $40,000. He went out and bought a 1976 Camaro with all the bells and whistles. What came next would change his life forever. He went to banks and took out cash advances and soon got into the world of drugs. Cocaine was his drug, He was spending 200 dollars a night. The equivalent to 6 grams when the lethal dose is 1.5- 2 grams. He was in and out of the hospital for overdosing, And was in and out of rehabs that never seemed to help. He finally kicked the habit and got into ecstasy, One time he took 13 pills and ended up in the hospital only to find out that he might not make it out alive. He was lucky enough to leave the next day. He was always a good kid even throughout the drug use. The credit card money not only went to support his drug habits but he helped out his brothers when his father wasn’t around. He would buy them things that they only dreamed of, wanting them to have the best of things. He tried his best to make his family happy. The drugs where all just a escape from reality. His father was a alcoholic that drank a 5th a day which later lead Joshua onto binge drinking. His father would hit him and blame him for everything that went wrong in his life,

I was at the recruiting office today and did all the stuff and the practice ASVAB and i take the real one tomorrow. When the recruiter asked me if i have ever been arrested or in the back of a cop car i said no. im 18. and in the beginning of may when i was 17 i got a DUI for Driving while on Marijuana. I was going to move in a month to Las Vegas because of my dads job. When the cop brought me home he told my dad to call and see when my court date was. he called and said that they said they would call back. well they never called back and we ended up moving to Las Vegas and nothing has happened since then, it been four months and nothing. so since iv’e never been to court and have not been charged with anything is it possible ill still join. is it possible the cop never turned in the paper work? And when will i know about the background check?

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So last night my mom was talking about Veteran’s day and how it’s bs, and soldiers shouldn’t be recognized for their sacrifices, and she has a very biased opinion about the military because my father is in the military, and he has a type A personality, and is both physically and mentally abusive, so she hates the whole military, and thinks that Veteran’s Day should be a second mother’s day, cause mother’s are the true heroes, which I don’t disagree with, and I was working out counting my reps which is why I didn’t say anything to her cause I was trying focus on working out, and not listening to her BS. So she takes my silence as disagreeing with her, so she asks for my opinion, and in a very subtle and respectful way, I say well mother’s don’t risk their lives, but soldiers are dodging bombs, and so now she thinks that I think my father is a hero, when I don’t think that at all, but I don’t let my hatred for my father change how i feel about the military. I am against all war, but I still support the troops. And so she flips out on me, and says she wants me to move to my father’s since I love him so much (sarcasm) and says that when my christmas gift comes in the mail to her, that she is gonna sell it on eBay, it was concert tickets to Trans Siberian Orchestra, this concert we’ve gone to since 2004, every year, it’s a tradition, and I saved up money for us to go to the movies before, and i am going to pay for our food to, just a day for me to treat my mom, and she won’t let me do that! It hurts me so much, and she is blaming me for her pains that she’s had since I was little, cause she has very severe back problems, missing disks in her back, and the rest of them are degenerating, but she is blaming me for it, because i cause her so much stress because she has to drive me to work, and to my free classes at the library to learn italian, and then she says that I use my novelty aesthetic purpose only voodoo doll that I got from new orleans on why she is hurting because i am supposedly casting these bad spirits on her to cause her pain. And because of all this I have relapsed, I am now resulting to drugs, my old problem has coming back, I’ve been doing cocaine and pills again. It hurts me so much, I am 16, and can’t wait to turn 18 and go move to Europe! And live with my family in Germany! Ich spreche und verstehe deutsche!
No buddy! you don’t get it, my mom marred the scottish drunk because he knocked her up, there was no love at all!

I’m 17 years old and i seriously can not stand living in my house. The main reason why is because of my alcoholic brother and my psycho controlling rat pack of a dad. I absolutely love my mom and my sister. But the men in my house are complete ASSHOLES. I graduated high school early, so now i take a few classes at community college. But other than that i’m at my house because i can’t get a job and i have nothing really to do. Let me tell you how much of a deuce my brother is. Today i found out that he deleted all of my songs off of my ipod so he could put his songs on due to the fact that he spends all his money on booze therefore he doesn’t have his own ipod. My mom and dad don’t do anything about him. He steals money from my parents. He doesn’t have a job. He is 22 and quit out of school.He verbally abuses me daily. He also just got a DUI. He is such an ASSHOLE and i absolutely hate him. I don’t want to move out because i’m only 17 and i don’t feel that i should have to leave my own home because of my brother. I just want him to move out or i want my parents to kick him out! How should i go about this??

The mother is kinda crazy their is two daughter two sons the youngest son picks up the older brother and sister at the airport and then the boys get in a fight the youngest boy nose stars bleeding once they get back to the house people find cocaine in a bag they think it’s the oldest and during their moms tv thing everything explodes and they kick out the oldest son and one of the sister tell them she is dating the older sisters ex boyfreind at the end the family find out the crack was the younger brother who Iant at home so they dash out to go find him soon the older brother gets ahold of the younger brother and then the older brother leaves the airport and meet the brother the older brother tries to take the cocaine and throw it away and the end up in a fight soon re father shows up were they are and be says stuff to them

Was convicted of Class A misdemeanor, DUI, and am on 365 day probation. I was told no alcohol or drugs in my home. When he told me this I let him know I lived with my father, just to make that point. I’m in Indiana by the way.

So what should I expect? Legally will either my dad have to stop drinking beer or I have to move out? I have no where else to go. How often do probationary officers visit, and what right’s will he have, if any, as far as entering and searching my dad’s home? Do they bring breathalyzers?

There is a girl whom I go to school with who lies about literally everything. I think that she wouldn’t tell the truth even if someone paid her to do it. I’ve only known her for 6 months, but so far she’s claimed that:
– she grows pot in her oven
– she’s been pregnant
– her mother threw a pair of shoes at her stomach which caused her to miscarry (lies!)
– she has a 6-year-old daughter (she’s only 17)
– she has a 2-year-old daughter (interchangeable w/the 6-year-old)
– her mother “beats” her (although mysteriously she has no bruises nor flinching problems…)
– her mother has both brain cancer and breast cancer
– her mother is not seeking medical treatment for these cancers….
– her mother was supposed to die LAST DECEMBER
– she has a fake ID
– she and her mother “go clubbing”
– she snorts cocaine (but somehow does not know the difference between that and crack)
– her father tried to kill her and ran away when she was 8; she’s never seen him since
– her father still lives with her; he grows pot in her chimney
– her friend got ran over by a bus and died while they were out clubbing and she tied to administer CPR (somehow this was not on the news)

And those are only some of the lies she’s told! It drives me absolutely stark raving mad to hear these things, but I don’t know what to do about it.

What do you think I should do?

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My fiance (Dan) and I have been together for 4 years now and we have a one year old son (Thadeus) together !!!!!!!!!!!!!! My fiance and I have a very good relationship, yes we have arguements like every other couple but nothing out of control. Well when I was about 2 months pregnant with our son, I was browsing for people on myspace because I was bored. I ended up coming across Dan’s ex Becki. Now Dan’s ex Becki, is his ex girlfriend before me. Dan also had a baby with her, a little girl back in 2003. They had broken up for many different reasons, Dan and his dad had told me all about her and what type of person she was. She was just an awful person, all the way down to the core. Mean, Conniving, Bitter, Self Loathing and so on and so forth. They were together for 2 1/2 years and they broke up when their daughter was a year old, the last time Dan got to see his daughter was when she was 1 1/2 which was Christmas Eve. The reason why is because he was 15 minutes late of dropping her off because Becki wanted Dan to bring their daughter back home in 2 hours from picking her up knowing that his dad lived about 40 minutes away. So that gave him little time to take her over to her grandpa’s. She told him ” If you come here again I will call the cops saying you are stalking and harassing me.” Dan was very upset, we went up to see if there was anything legal he can do about this and our town’s law system is completely ridiculous and I mean just so ridiculous and unfair (I’m sure our town isn’t the only one) they told him he really couldn’t do anything about it the mother would have to because he had a DUI on his record from 2 years before. When I had found her on myspace I was like “wow let’s see what she looks like,” so I went on her profile and looked around at her pictures you know what people do when they look at your profile lol. Well I guess she had a profile tracker on her page and found out that I was on her page and when she saw who I was she freaked. She wrote a nasty blog about me saying that I was stalking her because her tracker said I was on there 27 times in one week, if obviously I wasn’t lol. I didn’t even know the girl and I didn’t like her just by everything I was told and she proved herself to be that person. Because from then on it exploded, I wrote her saying ‘I don’t appreciate this at all you don’t know me and I was only on there once and thats because I wanted to see what Dan’s daughter looked like.” She wrote me an apology letter and then 2 weeks later she started the same stuff over and over. Mean Nasty Blogs, Rude Comments About Me and Dan, Snarky Comments About Our Son Before and After He Was Born. I mean she sat there and said that our son should of never been born, that he was going to have a mental defect, and other things. I never replied besides jst saying leave me alone your nuts but I did print out everything she had ever put up about us.Then the day after our son was born she filed for child support againest him for thier daughter, which thats not the probelm at all we understand it’s his right, privelege and responsibility to pay for his daughter so we don’t care you know, but it bothers me because she waits 5 years and the day after my son was born to file for it. Seriously???? You waited 5 years and the day after my son was born to do that, how heartless and cold can a person be? Does anyone have this proeblm or did have? Or a similiar probelm?

So my best friend whose like a brother to me finally got tired of parenting his mother’s and step fathers 5 kids 24/7 while they smoke weed or go to the bar. He got tired of them saying watch the kids and well be back in an hour and they come home at 4 am on a school night. Amongst other things he finally said fuck you got his shit togehter and picked him up. So he moved out. The process took a week and we made several hour and a half long trips to his house. His parents did not try to stop him and he moved in. So hes been living wiht me of a little over a week and his parents call and say if he won’t come home they will report him as a run away. Now both my parents, several of our friends, myself, and a few others are witness that he left and no one tried to stop him.

So firs tthey told him he HAD to get emancipated. Then they said they wqould refuse to sign over guardianship to my parents. Now they are threatining to call the cops.

So we need to get him to be able to legally stay in my house without blackmailing his parents with their alcoholism/illegal drug use. He just wants to move on and start being a normal teenager. He lived out in the boondocks here in alaska and I live in town. So By moving in with me and having a structured household wiht rules but also huidance he is starting to (attempt to, his mother will not give us the SSN or his birth certificate) to get his license, open a bank account, get a job, etc. So please help me out and tell me what I can do to help free him from his “parents”

Let me explain my situation: A few years ago, I began suffering from depression and tried to kill myself (due to years of mental abuse, being raped twice, and suffering a miscarriage). Then in 2006, I became hooked on cocaine and alcohol, I quit cocaine in 2007, and right after that I found out I was pregnant. Now, I’ve been suffering with a lot of stress, anxiety, and very low self esteem. I’m a single mother to the greatest daughter in the world and I love her dearly. I also take care of my 83 year old grandmother, plus I deal with outside stress (like from other family members). See where my stress comes in? But lately I have felt like I’ve really been losing it; I feel so out of control and I can’t deal with it. All I can do is cry my eyes out and my friends don’t know what to do or say. I don’t know what to do or say… I feel so lost, sometimes I can see myself (in my mind) hurting myself, but I would never do anything especially in front of my daughter. She’s all I have and I’m all she has, her father has never seen her. I’ve made up my mind not to go back to cocaine, so that is NOT an option. I know I need to see a psychiatrist so they can get me on the right track of medication.. I’ve tried Zoloft, Seroquel, Prozac, Welbutrin, Valium, Abilify, Paxil; my doctor has me on Pristiq and Seroquel XR right now. Well, let me rephrase that; I was on it and then when I went to Kentucky for 3 1/2 weeks, I didn’t need it, so I wasn’t on it, and I was FINE. But, now that I’m back home, I feel like I’m spiraling out of control. At times I feel like I should just check myself into a mental hospital, but I don’t know. Please help me….

I hired this girl about 3 weeks ago and she seems to be picking up on things quite well. Here’s the problem though: She’s called in 3 times already and each time its with a more outrageous excuse. The first time it was for the funeral of a really close friend, but she didn’t know about it until the day of. Seemed odd, but let it slide. The second time was less than a week later. She went to a baseball game with friends, her friend stole her car and got pulled over for DUI. Her car was towed and magically her wallet was missing too so she couldn’t get it out of the tow lot for 2 days. I wrote her up and gave her a final warning about attendance. Now it’s 1 1/2 weeks later and she left me a message this morning with a story about her dad getting into a motorcycle accident. I just spoke with her a few minutes ago and now she’s saying her dad is in an induced coma. If it’s true, I feel horrible, but I have a hard time believing her anymore. Would you fire her?

Megan McMullin period 6 health foster There was absolutely no copyright infringement intended, none of the audio track was produced written or sung by me. I take no credit. The song is never let this go by paramore.