Archive for May, 2011

1st Drug PSA


This is me and darios first drug PSA from TV pro.

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Well, considering that night I did have a lot of food and water too…I think it’s way too funny that I’m now 22 and I’ve still yet to become technically drunk. I think genes may also play a factor, my dad is a long-time recovering alcoholic…I’m I just naturally tolerant to alcohol?

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As far as I can remember my mom has enjoyed drinking. Sometimes she’s funny and jokes around, but she has to drink every day and becomes a monster when she drinks vodka. Attacking us emotionally (she’s done it to me and my father and sister multiple times) she gets physically violent, and once when taunting me to punch her, got so angry she began to punch her own face & laugh. This is such a severe problem. I’m growing distant from my mom because I can’ ttake it anymore. I haven’t lived at home for over 7 years, but I am close to my family and we talk multiple times a week, and they only live ten minutes away. Her drinking is self destructive, and my dad, I feel sorry for him. Her rants last hours upon hours, and I don’t know what to do. Alcoholism has killed to of her brothers, both of which took their own lives, and I fear the same for my mom who is a housewive, and always has been. She has one friend, who I call Grandma, but even she doesn’t know about my moms alcohol problem. My sister and I have been talking about getting her committed to get treatment. I love my mom very much. She’s the first person I call when I have good news, or bad news. Sober she is a great woman, but like I said, a monster when she’s drunk. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I don’t want to loose this relationship but it is emotionally draining me slowly. Thanks.

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How can i fix my marriage?

Hello all, im zak, i am currently a recovering alcoholic , ive spent my last three years one of which i wuz married living in drug abuse alcoholism and adultry, ive only been sober for 13 days n i c thing alot more clearly than i ever have….but with seeing clearly i have now realized i feel every emotion more clearly and the biggest is the pain the wretched horrible pain that i have broken such a sacred trust with my wife i have broken my vows set forth under the eyes of my Lord. i want to work it out with my spouse i have a 19 month old son whom i have have neglected to spend time with the furst year of his life due to my decision that drug and partying was more important…i love them so much n before i let myself get so numb to my feelings n now i feel n i feel horrible. i know that i cant make her forgive me i know My God cannot force her to do that, but im trying to show her i care n that i truly love her and that i want to make this work soo bad, so my question is …how can i prove to her i love her with out suffocating her how can i show her how much she means to me while giving her the necasary space she wants? so far ive been doin as many things as i can im getting help counceling and im taking it upon myself to help her with anything shes doin ive stepped up as a father weve only been split up for 3 weeks i know it still so early i know it could take years n years but i wont die happy nless i atleast try to prove n get her back til the day i die so plz if anyone can help me give me some ideas on how a husband shuld be im only 21 n shes only 20 im soo young i need guidance and ive turned closer to the Lord but id like advice im not asking im begging

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and now my father is an alcoholic. He can’t keep a job, he drinks three large bottles of rum a night and isn’t eating at all. He’s lost almost 90 lbs. and looks terrible. He calls all of his children begging us to come over but every time we do he gets angry when anyone asks him to stop or get help and he kicked my little sister out of his house for talking to him about it. He won’t admit it. Last week I went there and he was in the neighbors yard passed out and I had his 3 year and one year old grandchildren with me- they were scared. I had to drag him into his house and upstairs He asks all of us to pick him up alcohol from the store every time we come over. This has become and everyday problem in our lives with the 3 am calls that make no sense and the begging for booze and the denial. What can we do?

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so im a great writer and me and my group wrote this song. is fantastic , what ya think? :

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This is me , who is here? Me.
im a guy and you are a girl
and if we fusionated
we become a guyrl.

i can jump. can you ?
i bet you cant
cuz you have no height.

i have blue eyes and white skin
and the sun is yellow like a banana.
and i like bananas.

i bought a coca cola yesterday
you bought cocaine.
i jumped to the sky
you jumped to jail.
i know is not fair
for you. i swear im not gay.

people tend to say the sky is red
cuz they are in drugs. and drugs are bad
like mexícan dudes.
but where are they? i have no clue.
i guess they disappear
when the immígration officers came

im so goodlooking cuz my father had good gens
and his father has white skin. like the clouds.
like george clonney and brad pitt.

i said enough now i will eat doritos.
cuz i like my fritos. and you are a uncircumcized.

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you like it?

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We’ve been married for 4 years and have 2 small children and my husband has cheated 4 times, he has a drug and alcohol problem so he’s never cheated sober, he’s been drunk everytime, but that’s no excuse. This last time the girl ended up pregnant and she’s sure it’s his and is keeping it. He says he don’t want anything to do with it, which don’t bother me at all. I’m now on prozac for depression and anxiety and things seem to be getting better but I still don’t know what to do about this situation. I love him to death but I can’t deal with any of this anymore, I don’t want to leave him but if he continues his ways, I don’t think I have a choice but to leave, but what about the kids? I don’t want to take them away from their dad, who they love very much and I love him too, it’s just too much and it scares me to think of what will happen if he drinks again, he may be going to jail in June for a DUI, I think it could be good though bc it will give him a chance to think about his life.
The other women don’t want to cause any problems with us, she don’t care if he don’t want anything to do with the baby. I can’t afford to take care of 2 kids myself, we can barely make it now! My husband had a rough childhood with a mom who was married 5 times and step-dads who beat him, he’s had a rough life and I don’t want to give up on him like his own family has! He suffers from bi-polar and his therapist told him he may be suffering from post tramatic stress from his childhood. Our kids are the happiest kids you’d ever meet and spoiled rotten! He doesn’t or would never do anything to hurt his kids and for the DUI he failed his field test bc his eye twitched! he blew a .09 and .08 is the legal limit (like one beer) Everyone with him swears he only drank 3 and he wasn’t drunk! I don’t drink and I don’t do drugs, I take care of my kids the best I can and everyone I know says we are doing a great job!

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My bf doesn’t like Christmas. His dad was a alcoholic and it just wasn’t a happy time at his house. I’m the opposite and I just love Christmas. I respect that he feels differently than I do and I don’t think he needs to enjoy it like I do but I wish that he wasn’t so uncharacteristically dreary at Christmas time. Any suggestions?

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I’m fifteen and I just had my first day back to school.
I’m a sophomore at an all girls parochial school.
It’s college prep so I’ll have between 3 to 6 hours of home work a night and huge exams and blah blah blah…
I hate it though.
The work stresses me out and I don’t have any friends. All the girls think they’re better than everyone else and I can’t stand it.
I was hoping my family would be there for me but theyre not…
My brother got in a wreck the other night and got arrested for DUI so my moms been all worried about him, my step dad doesnt care, and my daddy has to work late all week.
So like usual, everyone’s too busy to notice anything’s wrong with me.
My best friends too busy for me too… she lives an hour away. I wanted to transfer to another school where tons of my friends go second semester but they ditched me the other day at a festival so now I don’t even have anything to look forward to because I don’t want to transfer now.
What should I do to not feel so sad?
I know it’s not the end of the world… I just had a bad year last year because my family and I secluded myself from making friends and now everyone at school thinks I’m the weird quiet girl.
I don’t know… thanks for any help you may give me though.

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help i cant stop crying!?

my dog who was very very close to me and he recently died. i remeber the last thing i said about him was that I didnt want him sleeping in the cold RAIN AND i WAS CRYING 4 HIM.i need a new dog because no one in my house understands me and I feel really depresssed. animals are my everything and i REALLY miss him because he is my only friend at home because my mom is like very tempermental and my dad doesnt have any money because he just lost his job. he is also trying to get over his alcoholism so its hard at home right now. my mom just went to the bank and found out that she doesnt have much money. im only 13 years old and im really depressed because my life is not going very well and my grades are also going down.

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Well, I remember when I was a teenager, I was always ashamed of my parents for almost everything. Nothing they did seemed “OK”. They didn’t have problems like alcoholism or drugs or anything of that sort. But just their behaviors and their decisions never seemed right or good to me. Don’t get me wrong, I love my parents. I just don’t like some of the stuff they do. For example, my mother’s low self confidence and the way she raised me to be a person with a very low self confidence as well. Until I learned to be confident by myself. Or my father’s carelessness and not being involved in my life. And such stuff.

Now that I want to have children of my own, I’m very worried that I will be viewed as a some sort of a loser as well by my kids when they grow up, even if I try my best to not be like my parents and try to be the best parent I could be. Do all children, especially teenagers think in a sort of negative way about their parents
Or should the question be: Do all parents suck? LOL

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im a 14 year old girl my father is an alcoholic and he has been trying to get back in touch with my family my sister(19) and brother (22) were happy and talked to him without hesitation but i don’t want to talk to him and after thinking about it i have come to realize i hate him not the kind of hate the eats away at you the kind where if you think about him you are disgusted and repulsed just wondering if anyone else out there feels the same way and do you think it is ok for a child to hate her father, any advice about if i should try to get past my feelings and talk to them or leave it be is welcome thanks in advance for answering

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My dad yells at me every day?

So this morning my dad woke me up SCREAMING in my face about the freakin remote!!!!! it fell off the couch and rolled under the table when i fell asleep and he said that i hid it from him! He allways yells and i try to do better but when i do do sumthin good he finds sumthin bad about it! He NEVER says anything nice to me and he is NEVER home!!! he is out working with his drug addict workers! (btw he is not a drug addict his workers are) And he hits me! He is SUCH a D*** sometimes! As if it couldn’t get any worse he gives away my stuff! He gave away my necklace, bike, trampoline, and MY KITTY! he gave her to his drug addicted worker!!!! i luved her and he gave her away! so i went into the guys house cause it is actually ours but we let him use it and she was laying on ciggeret buds!!!!!! how do i make him stop?!?!?!

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I found out I was pregnant about 2 weeks ago. I am now a little over 6 weeks along. I told my “best friend” and then she was like, oh I think I am too! I have a fiance, a house, we both have steady jobs and own two vehicles. She has no job, a “boyfriend” that may be the father cause she sleeps around, he also has a cocaine addiction, she lives with her mother and all she does is drinks and parties. Everyone says she is not pregnant that she is just doing this for attention because I’m pregnant and people are happy for me. I don’t think she is either but I am going along with her. She hasn’t told anyone because they “want to wait until 3 months”. Everytime I mention my pregnancy or symptoms I am having she totally ignores what I say and then makes it all about her “pregnancy”. She is so full of shit. I want to call her out on it but she will just get all weird n flip out. She says she doesn’t want anyone to know either because nobody will support her like they are me, like what is she trying to do make me feel bad because I have a good life? WTF. I am so frustrated. I can almost bet any money that when her “3 month” mark comes around she will say she “lost the baby”. I know it. WHY is she doing this? It’s not like I am even getting much attention because we don’t even have the same friends really. I’m so mad I stopped talking to her altogether and want nothing to do with her. She is such a fake horrible friend. OH and the best part, there was photos of her with liquor in her hand the other day and when I asked her about it she said, “oh I was pretending to drink because I didn’t want people to ask me why I wasn’t, so what I would do was pretend to take a sip then when I went to the washroom I would pour out some liquor” like BS! I’m so mad. Help! What to do? Just forget her? That’s what I am thinking!

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I want a tattoo and I want a script on the bottom of my ribs.
My dad is an alcoholic and gets really violent when he’s drunk, so I want something that tells me to stay away from stuff like that?
Or maybe something like that tells you to over come all obsticales in life and to stay strong?
Thanks.
For the best answer I will give them full stars :)

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This is a guy btw, nevermind the name

Okay until I was 16 I always said im never going to drink and when kids my age offered me drink I would always say no.

I havent been drinking that long and only on a few occasions

On my 16th birthday (november) I started drinking, and got drunk, that was my first experience
Then I drunk janurary but didnt get too drunk (5 cans)
same with the week after
then the week after I got a little more drunk
Then I stopped until May and I got really drunk again (8 cans)
Then the week after I drank but didnt get drunk
then last night I went out and had 2 drinks..

But all of a sudden I have this HUGE fear where I think I am or will be an alcoholic, my mum and dad kinda are so it could be genetic

and I still wanny go out at weekends and drink…and im sitting in my kitchen right now and theres vodka and im scared ill drink it even though i dont want to

so on 8 months I drunk on 7 occasions

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i think my family hates me?

wene my dad was alive i was his favorite.i had a great up bringing.then in 1986 in december rite next to my birthday he died lol even my uncle my moms brother told me while out of my head and my eyes wide open watching my dad laying on the rug dead told me laughing now your a half a orphan kid.i no it doesnt sound sane lol.no 1 bothered me while my dad was alive.they friggin knew better.no 1 was in the house but me my dad and my uncle that was drunk lol i was sleeping and woke up 2 see my dad gone.my older brothers and sister lollollol they treated me like royalty befor.i loved my dad i still do.then it started.i remember in 2005 i lost 3 pints of blood the dr said i had cancer and while im getting a blood transfusion in a hospital bed my brothers calling me ,aking jokes while i almost died.2006 my dog died in my arms i had 4 12 yrs he was really my only family and he was my son.my brother came over 2 me while holding my dog crying and said its just a f n dog lol nice huh?my whole family talks about me lol there not happy with there lives so they talk about there lil brother???even my mom doesnt like me she talks about me to.lol never 2 my face.im talked about everyday.there cowards they kissed my azz wene my dad was still alive and a family that does this 2 a brother and son r lol only way i can put it is cowards that will pay wene there times up.but i dont even have any1 to talk 2 about this.and now lmaooooo im living up the street from my mom lol i cant take it anymore.yea im no angel either i got a dui and i learned my lesson 4 it.but now im known as a CRIMINALLLL 2 theme lol i want 2 move 2 another state there s nothing at allll here 4 me anymore but dont have the money rite now so im stuck here.i need help i dont know what to do death is a better option then this really.
excuse the soelling and the lol im not laughing really i feel like my life is over

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I recently found out that my blood related Uncle has been going over to my step sister’s house and asking my step brother for coke(the drug) and crashing over there when he gets drunk when he is suppose to be recovering from alcoholism, he also stole a bottle of liqour from her. I live with my step-dad and my mom and I don’t know what to do, she wants to talk to my uncle about it before she tells my parents but I feel like I’m doing something wrong by keeping it from them because the Uncle that did this stuff has been hanging around my other uncle who has been depressed which worries me because he is suppose to be helping him, not hurting him..what do i do and is it bad that i’m keeping this from my parents just to make sure thanksgiving doesn’t go to hell?

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BACKGROUND:
-Middle aged, white male
-Little formal education (High School dropout)
-Production Labourer
-Lower than average IQ (85-90)
-Twice Divorded, currently in a common law relationship
-Convicted Felon
-Alcoholic Mother
-Unknown Father
-Suffered physical abuse as a child
-Impoverished Upbringing

TRAITS
-Very Aggressive
-Very Assertive
-Can be belligerent
-Prone to violence
-Doesn’t get along well with others
-Displays signs of low self-esteem
-Abuses alcohol and illicit drugs
-Chain Smoker
-Obese
-Routinely engages in arguments
-Can be excessively critical, and verbally abusive
-Often initiates domestic violence
-Cruel and sadistic
-Self-centred, has no concerns for the needs of others
-Envious of authority figures
-Dictatorial and tyrancical toward all underneath him
-Signs of accute alcoholism
-Shows little concern for personal hygene
-No signs of altruism, seen by others as selfish
-Often loud, aggressive, antagonistic, and brutal
PS This is a ficticious personality profile I made up. I do not know any individuals who could represent this description. By the way, does the term anti-social come to mind?

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