ever since young, dad loved to compare me and my younger sis(in terms of looks&intelligence)and he would say things that put sis over me,making me feel lousy and discredited.

then i started wearing mini skirts at 16. being tall and leggy, many ppl commented that i looked hot in them,but my dad told me it was ugly and obscene. then i started doubting myself as well as my friends. he said that my friends are plainly fooling me.

when i worked hard and gotten myself a place in a prestigious high sch,dad said it wasn’t truly my talent n that it was plain luck anyway.and yet sis,who couldn’t make it anywhere after middle sch got his total support in the things she did.not very fair thou.

then as many ppl commented that i have the potential for modelling,many of my friends encouraged me to give it a try as they feel that i really have the potential.and i thought the idea was not bad so i went to try,but dad said to me that i cannot model at all,and that i’m nothing like a model material at all.

trivia i know, but why does it seem like he’s tearing my self-esteem down time and again? what should i do to reassure myself?
i feel really broken and intimidated when being next to my sis, and have no confidence at all when i go out. great help needed pls.

He’ll say “fuck you” and a lot of things like that, which pisses off my mom. They (my sister and step dad) usually get into an argument every night at dinner. She’s 14, and I’m 15. I can see why he gets aggravated though… my sister never shuts up when she’s supposed to. She makes the problems worse, and I think she thinks that retaliating makes her “stronger” when actually it just emphasizes her lack of common sense.

By the way, our step father is an alcoholic.

My dad lives aboard in Singapore and we don’t get to see him often i end up going to a new years party instead of spending it with him which i should have listened to him about because i drank to much and passed out on a sofa before midnight with before people taking photos of me which i am feeling really bad about. What can i do to make it up to him? What can i do about the worrying and forget about it?

I’ve been binging and purging now for a little over a year. I am 16. A couple months ago I was hospitalized for it but still did not get better. There I was diagnosed with Bulimia Nervosa, but still I did not get the better with weekly therapy and even if I did, I couldn’t stop.
When I came home…I still binged but didn’t purge for fear of being put back in inpatient. Now that I’ve gained weight from that, I now binge every single night and purge afterwards.

The thing is, sometimes I can’t purge if I do it too many times. When I used to purge up to 15 times a day, after a while my gag reflex just wouldn’t work and nothing would come up. So I was wondering what else I could do? Would drinking soap water do it?

I know this is bad…but I really can’t afford to gain any more weight. I am not happy. And my dad knows, who I am living with, but he doesn’t care and denies it so he won’t get in trouble for allowing it. And I can’t tell any anyone because I don’t want to get in trouble.

So please…what should I do??
And I do NOT want to go back inpatient or to any hospital please!

My husband and I have been married for six years. He is an alcoholic. He was in AA and was doing well when we met and married. He has fallen off the wagon many times over the past six years. We lived in another state and he was drinking all the time. So drunk he couldn’t stand or talk. He promised me that if I would move back “home” with him that he’d show me that he would stop for good. He even said he’d go to AA here. But we have been here for a month and a half now and he is drunk really bad tonight. He’s been in trouble in this state before. He spent six mos in jail long before we met for drunk driving habitual. I just talked to him because he is three hours late coming home from work. He is blind drunk. I am not a drinker so I don’t understand. I am sick with a very serious disease if I get stressed. I am trying not to let this stress me really bad tonight but he may or may not come home. He has expired plates on his car and he is drunk. If he goes to jail, I will not stay married to him but in the same sense, I can’t pay my rent and I’m unable to work. I’ve applied for social security but haven’t heard anything yet. I don’t know what to do. Should I just go ahead and wait up for him and just not say anything to him until tomorrow? Should I call the police so that when he does get here, he can’t stay? I just don’t know anymore. He broke that promise after he cried and cried and begged me to come up here with him. He said it was going to be different because he was going to be happy. I am in my 40s and I’m not a kid. But I’ve never had to deal with this before in my life until I met him. Do you have any advice? Please? I am sick and afraid. I don’t know if I can make it on my own. He just came in and fell on the floor because he can’t stand up. He is not acting drunk as much as he is acting drugged. He has done many types of drugs according to him before and he has also done some very bad things to me emotionally in the past when my father lay in the hospital dying on life support..my husband went out and done a bunch of coke and didn’t go home for two days. He has stolen and taken my pain medication where I had to just take the pain because of it. He said he loves me but I have my doubts now. Thank you for reading and please don’t say anything too harsh to me because I don’t think I can take it anymore. I just can’t and I don’t understand why I am still alive. But I do want to be. I love my children but I only have one left that is under 18 now.

Im 20 years old and I am happily married to my husband of 2 years. We are expecting our very first baby boy this January. To try to make a very long story short I will bullet the main points. I will also try to stay as unbiased as possible…
*Father was an alcoholic and abandoned his family of 5 for almost 2 years.
*Mother took up 3 jobs to support family. Now only works 2.
*Mother filed for divorce and claimed abandonment. Officially divorced.
*Father comes back and asks to live with mother for about 6 months. Has a history of 4 DUI’s in which he did not show up for court or pay fines.
*Father gets placed in prison for a total of 5 months. (i know, lucky right)
*Mother does not want father to live with her anymore. I take in Dad with the condition that he does not drink.
*Father drinks and I do not tell my husband, but I gave my dad a 2nd chance.
*Father has been living with us for 9 months, we do not charge him rent so he can save up as much money to move out. Has not looked for a job in over 5 months
*Has been staying over at mothers house for a whole month.
*Currently 6 months pregnant and original plan was to convert spare bedroom into nursery before dad moved in.
*A day before my dad’s birthday he shows up at 11:00 pm, drunk and turns on the radio very loud. (My husband and I have to work in the morning) I politely tell him to turn it off, refuses and wants to go over to my mother’s house. So we drive him over there since he was determined to walk.
* When I was 16 I first bought my car and my mom put it in her name so insurance could be cheaper. Begged her for 2 years to sign over title and would “forget” to show up at the MVD. I wanted to sell the car to make some extra money to a very close friend who helped my mom fix her house several times while my father was out of the picture. Refused to sign it over and claimed she would call the cops and report it as stolen if I did not return the car.
*I packed up all my dad’s stuff inside the car and parked it in the front yard.

My husband and I are very happy when my family is not around. Actually we have only had arguments about my family. My Mother is very hypocritical and two-faced and my father is a bum who does not want to assume responsibility and take care of his family. Throughout my entire pregnancy my family has only caused me stress and made me angry. I understand my family is very dysfunctional (who’s isn’t?) but I just need some opinions…I am always there for my family, lending money, fixing house, picking up siblings at a minutes notice, support. I have never said “No, I cant do this for you I’m too busy” I always drop what I am doing to help them and so does my husband. Am I being a bad daughter because I kicked out my dad who hadn’t been at the house in over a month and broke the only condition I had for him, which was to not drink?

Ever wonder why the Egyptians would marry their relatives.Like Hatshepsut married her brother and had aa kid who married Hatshepsuts mother and had a daughter who got married to her dad.Its like they actually enjoy having abnoraml kids!?!?
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My dad is a total dick. he is a alcoholic, he cheated on my mom more then twice, he tries to beat me and he gets mad at me for no reason at all sometimes. I would sometimes get so mad that i would break things in my house and go mad. What can i do to relax all this fury?

okay… im only 14 i get it, but for my age ive seen a lot of shit. from heroin to pot, up and down the scale… but this… even goes far for me. Hes 16 and does pot, e, heroin, reefers, cocaine, speed and like 2 other things… hes tried to make me chain different drugs together in the same trip and i really need to figure out how to cut him off from drugs. hes barely passing his classes, the ones he goes to that is, hes been thrown out of his house 3 times cause his dad doesnt respect him, he fights with everyone in his family… i know he just needs to get cut off but i dont know all his connects…

please give me suggestions on what to do!

you never seen your dad since baby?

My pops has been drinking allot he first did 2 glasses of wine then he went to drinking the whole bottle then after that “didn’t work” hes moved on to shots of vodica and now he does at least 8-10 shots a night.i wouldn’t have a problem. But he turn an angry asshole when he drinks. So any advice? Plz no bull s h i t.

THX

A man in the pub says to the other man…. “Yesterday your mom was sleeping with me”……
The other man replies!!

“dad u r too much drunk today lets go home!!”

I feel so different.
I’m normal, but i’m not.
Lol, I don’t know what my deal is.
I have a mild form of ocd.
I think it’s mild, atleast.
My mom’s taken me to see if I was crazy before.. because my ocd was so weird.
I don’t know if I have a mild form of shizofrenia (skitzofrenia) too or what..
I’ve actually never even considered that before just now, lol wow.
I will like talk to… nothing because there MIGHT, just MIGHT be something there.
That’s how I think too.
I’m so confused.
And yes, I have smoked pot before.. lmfao.
I thought this way when i was like 2 though.
I have forever.
My dad passed away when I was 7.
So I dont know…..
I do believe in paranormal.
What is wrong with me?
You know that feeling when like, you have to poop.. but youre holding it in because youre in a class or something?
Well, I like that feeling… lmfaorofl.
Also, when I do poop, (excuse the crudity..lol) I dont find it gross at all to take it out, and look at it.
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I’ve even like, tasted it before.
I just put it on the tip of my tounge, and like bit it.. it was so gross.
Lol.!
But yeah, that’s another thing that makes me think… am I crazy?
Or is that just like a mild, weird form of being turned on my poop?
I know, I thought it was weird when i first heard that too.
I think I have the perfect midnt o be a big time scientist.
I’m a scorpio, so can someone tell me if that means anything?
I’m honestly, really miniuplative.

Also, the scorpio is the sex sign.. and I used to hateeee myself for knowing what that was when i was like 5.. i wanted to die because i hated knowing that. It grossed me out soo bad.. but yet i was honestly humping my bed post because it felt good.
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If you need to know, I am 14 years old, but I look around 18.. and i dont feel 14.
5’8 1/2.
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My mom took me to the doctor guy whe n i was like 11.
But I ony went once, and he didnt get anything out of me.
I was so confused back then.. didnt even know what my ocd was.
My mom told me a while ago that she had a mild form of ocd when she was a child herself, but what she said that stuck with me was “I know what you’re going through, you aren’t alone”

In my heart i dont think im crazy, i think im different.
A crazy person doesnt think, or know that theyre crazy.. so that couldnt be the case.. could it?
I honestly do not think that i am crazy.. just different.
But I might be crazy.. it’s undeniably secure in my mind.
I dont know who I am.
Also, I eat alotttt at night.
I used to stay up until 7 in the morning eating and watching tv, and being on the computer in my room.. but now im back on schedulle.
I dont look that fat at all.
Just a little chubby i guess you could say, but i get hit on by EVERONE i meet.
guy OR girl.. lmfao i love it.
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Also, I ued to be and still am determined to become an actress.. amous, or well known one.
I was going to mvoe to l.a. when i turn 20.
after 2 years of college.
Now that i think about it, the last 2 years of my life have been denial.
I kept telling myself that i can wait until im skinny to do any plays or anything.. and then i keep holding off on the gym, for some stupid reason.. and binge some days, and just not eat somedays.
I was convinced that I would be successful at acting, and dont need a baclup plan.
I have been told many many many times by even people who hate me that i am a very good actress, adn dont knwo how a girl my age could act like that.
I can cry on cue, very easy.. and lots of other things.
But.. now I’m starting to think it’s denial.
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Oh, by the way, I AM NOT A GUY!

Female Sex Chromosome X Male Sex Chromosome XY
Sex of the Teenager Male

TraitGene From MotherGene From FatherGenotypePhenotype
4.Face Shape r
r
rr
square

5.Chin Shape I V
v
Vv
Very Prominent
6.Chin Shape II R
R
RR
round

7.Cleft Chin A
a
Aa
absent

8.Skin Color
very dark brown
9.Hair Type c
C
cC wavy

10.Widow’s Peak W
w
Ww
present

11.Eyebrows I B
B
BB
bushy

12.Eyebrows II N
N
NN
not connected
13.Eyebrow Color h
h
hh
lighter than hair
14.Eye Color

hazel

15.Mouth Size M
m
Mm
average

16.Lip Thickness l
l
ll
thin

17.Protruding Lower Lip H
H
HH
very protruding
18.Dimples d
d
dd
absent

19.Eye Size E
E
EE
large

20.Eye Shape A
a
Aa
almond

21.Eye Slantedness h
h
hh
upward slant
22.Eyelashes L
l
Ll
long

23.Nose Size N
n
Nn
average

24.Nose Shape R
R
RR
rounded

25.Nostril Shape R
R
RR
rounded

26.Earlobe Attachment f
f
ff
attached

27.Freckles on Cheeks F
f
Ff
present
Well to your ignorance and bad assumptions no this is not home work i took a make a teen thing for biology and wanted to see what the guy i made would look like ^_^

My parents are divorced, I am 16 years old living with her mom and her boyfriend, whom we have been living with for about 4 years, and there has always been problems and tension with him and I and my mom doesnt have the best record, shes had a past of a dui and other things. My parents have joint custody, my father pays his dues, and he lives out of state. So about 3 weeks ago we had some issues, she wanted to send me off out of state about 2000 miles away and didn’t talk to me about it or anything, I refused and well didn’t want to. she kicks me out and i go with my uncle and we went back and they werent to happy and they said somethings and pretty much they didn’t want me there, but then she was telling me to go home and such and I don’t want to.
I want to stay here with my uncle, and what can i do and what is the best thing to do? What will it take for my uncle to get legal guardianship/custody of me so he can sighn papers such as passport and things like that
Ps I live in California, and i do not want to live with neither my mother nor father
We were living with my moms boyfriend in his home

hey guys i need help with all of my friends . they are crazzy my 2 best friends are girls and they are sisters and my other friend is a guy. my guy friend(a) allways brings his friends out to the lake. they allways are sexually harassing my girl (friends). like grabing them and kissing them (making them)and it is really make me and my other friend(b) really pissed offwhat should i do about this issue should i talk to there dad (there dad is odd like if he saw me kissing his dawter he wouldn’t care very crazzy lets guys get all over her)should i takl to my girls i really love them but thay are the most stupidest pecises of **** u can ever amagine also there is another issue what ever i call my girl (friends) they never whant to talk to me at first when i first met them they couldn’t get off of me but now they are like (not saying this thinking) aa when is he going to go away and omg quite calling me thts the empresstion that i get they are my friends but wish they were more wha sho i do

he was married to my mum…and obviously their marriage broke up, because of this.

he now lives alone, and its just as worse. he denies that he is. and only goes to work, and then come home to drink…unless he takes the day off ‘sick’

he knows how i feel about it, and spoken to him for several years about it, and apparently i’m not enough for him to stop, and that ‘i’m being selfish’

he is a completely different person when he’s drunk and i hate the ‘drunk him’.
he is the loverlyesst guy ever when he is sober.

i am 17, and soon will go to uni. i know i’m just going to worry more about him, and i have done for years.

my mum divorced him, and they both dont speak. She doesnt have to deal with all of this.

i’ve never told any of my best mates either, i dont know why either. as close as they are to me, i am just afraid to say, but i dont know.

i dont expect for you to have an answer, im just saying is there anything more i can do? :’(
Thanks guys, you’ve helped alot. :’)
i think im going to tell one of my closest friends, not sure when, but i will.

he gave up for a year, and then got back intouch with an Ex gf, and he decided to start drinking again, which was stupid.

i know its silly, but the less i think about it, the better i feeel. (obviously)
so hopefully he’ll come round, in his own time.

thankyou x

he was married to my mum…and obviously their marriage broke up, because of this.

he now lives alone, and its just as worse. he denies that he is. and only goes to work, and then come home to drink…unless he takes the day off ‘sick’

he knows how i feel about it, and spoken to him for several years about it, and apparently i’m not enough for him to stop, and that ‘i’m being selfish’

he is a completely different person when he’s drunk and i hate the ‘drunk him’.
he is the loverlyesst guy ever when he is sober.

i am 17, and soon will go to uni. i know i’m just going to worry more about him, and i have done for years.

my mum divorced him, and they both dont speak. She doesnt have to deal with all of this.

i’ve never told any of my best mates either, i dont know why either. as close as they are to me, i am just afraid to say, but i dont know.

i dont expect for you to have an answer, im just saying is there anything more i can do? :’(
Thanks guys, you’ve helped alot. :’)
i think im going to tell one of my closest friends, not sure when, but i will.

he gave up for a year, and then got back intouch with an Ex gf, and he decided to start drinking again, which was stupid.

i know its silly, but the less i think about it, the better i feeel. (obviously)
so hopefully he’ll come round, in his own time.

thankyou x

he was married to my mum…and obviously their marriage broke up, because of this.

he now lives alone, and its just as worse. he denies that he is. and only goes to work, and then come home to drink…unless he takes the day off ‘sick’

he knows how i feel about it, and spoken to him for several years about it, and apparently i’m not enough for him to stop, and that ‘i’m being selfish’

he is a completely different person when he’s drunk and i hate the ‘drunk him’.
he is the loverlyesst guy ever when he is sober.

i am 17, and soon will go to uni. i know i’m just going to worry more about him, and i have done for years.

my mum divorced him, and they both dont speak. She doesnt have to deal with all of this.

i’ve never told any of my best mates either, i dont know why either. as close as they are to me, i am just afraid to say, but i dont know.

i dont expect for you to have an answer, im just saying is there anything more i can do? :’(
Thanks guys, you’ve helped alot. :’)
i think im going to tell one of my closest friends, not sure when, but i will.

he gave up for a year, and then got back intouch with an Ex gf, and he decided to start drinking again, which was stupid.

i know its silly, but the less i think about it, the better i feeel. (obviously)
so hopefully he’ll come round, in his own time.

thankyou x

I am in such a mess.I have been divorced for three years. I lived with my parents for a while three years ago when I left my husband. My ex threatened my life & was heavy heavy into cocaine. I had a three year old & was pregnant with 2nd. I was scared for my life, he said he was going to hurt me & the child. I live in a country club gated community. Well, about a year later, I moved down the street in the same country club with the kids to a house that my dad bought for me & kids to live in. He said I was not to ever allow the ex into his house. So, to make things easier I never told the ex we moved down the street. It is the same town, same country club but a street over from parents. I did not want to provoke a fight with him. He has supervised visitation w/ kids due to drug usage, so I always bring kids to him b/c I am the supervisor. Also, he is not allowed overnights. But now, this lie has gone on & it is three years later. How do I tell him? I am so afraid of threats again
Thanks all for the replies. My oldest child is six and I am afraid she is going to tell him and then he is going to flip out on me for lying but I don’t want to tell her to lie. What do you think?